Divorce rates in Connecticut mirror national trends, and more couples now choose mediation to end their marriages. However, misunderstandings about this process often stop people from considering it. Let’s examine three common myths about divorce mediation.
What is divorce mediation?
Divorce mediation means involving a neutral third party to help spouses reach mutually agreeable results. This approach aims to reduce conflict, save time and money and give couples more control over their divorce outcome.
Myth #1: Mediation only works for friendly divorces
Many believe mediation suits only couples on good terms. This isn’t true. Mediation can succeed even in high-conflict situations because it:
- Creates a structured setting for productive talks
- Allows breaks between sessions
- Uses methods to manage emotions and improve communication
Mediation often helps couples who struggle to communicate effectively on their own.
Myth #2: The mediator decides for you
Some think the mediator acts like a judge, making decisions for the couple. But in fact:
- Mediators facilitate discussions, not make decisions
- Couples keep control over all choices in their divorce
- Mediators guide talks and help create options
This myth often comes from mixing up mediation with arbitration, where an arbitrator makes binding decisions.
Myth #3: Mediation doesn’t protect your legal rights
People worry that without court involvement, they might lose their legal rights. However, mediation can better protect your interestsv
because:
- You can talk to a lawyer at any time during the process
- Lawyers can review final agreements before you sign
- Mediated agreements often contain more details specific to your situation
Connecticut law recognizes mediated agreements as legally binding when properly executed. The state encourages alternative dispute resolution methods, including mediation, to reduce court backlogs and costs.
By clearing up these myths, we hope more Connecticut couples will consider mediation for their divorce. Each situation differs, so explore all options to find your best approach. Mediation offers a way to divorce with less conflict and more control, but it’s not right for everyone. Consider talking to a local divorce mediator or attorney to learn if mediation fits your needs.